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Tips On Dating A Plus-Size Girl

All women want to feel feminine, wanted, needed, loved and especially attractive. Plus-size women, like myself, are no different. However, dating a plus-size girl may mean having to deal with some sensitive subjects, obstacles, and situations that may make her feel uncomfortable. Being prepared for these obstacles can mean problem-free and fun, exciting dates with special plus-size girls.

I’ve found this to be true when I tried online bbw dating. Making myself aware of the following situations that the men I’ve met who have made efforts to have my best interests at heart have made our dates fun and exciting and, most importantly, problem-free and without any awkwardness. I thought I’d share some of what I’ve learned that has made my dating life exciting. The following are tips for men who date plus-size women to make us feel at ease. Size shouldn’t matter when looking for that “special someone”.

When dating a plus-size woman, consider her comfort when planning your dates. Don’t make reservations at a restaurant where you know the chairs are small and people may stare or give judgmental looks. Amusement parks, where she’ll have to squeeze into a roller coaster seat, are also out of the question. If she’s made to feel self-conscious, she won’t have any fun. Try to take her to places where there will be people of all shapes and sizes. For example, go to the mall or an outdoor festival. Don’t plan anything active, such as hiking, unless she suggests it. She may be embarrassed or self-conscious about being out of shape or unable to keep up.

An online bbw dating website is a good source to find out your potential date’s likes, dislikes and interests by reviewing her profile and having subsequent communications with her before planning your first date/meeting with her. Doing this type of “homework” will provide the best possible date outcome.

It goes without saying to never mention her weight or size, even if it’s to compliment her on it. Put your focus on who she is, complimenting her personality, interests, hobbies and dreams. Never ask if she belongs to or plans to belong to a gym. If you’re together at a restaurant, never remark on her eating habits. Avoid comments like, “Should you really be eating that?”, even if you mean well. This will likely bring a sour end to your date. Keep the conversation light and positive. Always remember to compliment her. Tell her often that she looks lovely.

Introduce your lovely plus-size girl to your friends and family as soon as you both feel comfortable. She may secretly begin to feel that you’re “hiding” her, or are embarrassed by her size, if you put off introducing her after having dated you for an extended period of time. During activities with friends and family, keep the conversation general and involve your girl as much as possible so that she feels included. Praise her attributes in front of others. Ask your less-than-tactful family members and friends not to mention or draw attention to your girl’s size or eating habits.

A plus-size girl can be unusually insecure and self-conscious about her size and your relationship. She needs reassurance from you. Keep your attention on her throughout your date. Above all, don’t ogle or flirt with other girls, especially thin girls. Make regular physical contact, especially in public, to show your affection and how much she means to you. Hold her hand, put your arm around her or give her a quick peck on the cheek. She needs to know you’ve accepted her in spite of her size.

Handle occasional embarrassments, like a too-small chair or a rude comment from a stranger, with sensitivity and humor. Show her that you’re attracted to her, no matter what, and that she can feel completely comfortable with you because you’re comfortable with her.

To summarize, let your plus-size woman know by your actions and careful date-planning that she’s the one you want to be with. Do your best to make her feel comfortable and admired for who she is and what she can offer you. By making the effort to do all of the above, her inner and outer beauty will shine and you may just find your lifetime soul mate!  Try seeking out your bbw dream girl on a bbw dating site.  You may just find the woman of your dreams.

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