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Dating Big vs. Skinny Girls

At some point in our lives, we’ve all said that all men are alike, right? Well, I believe that this is absolutely false. The male preference seems to differ based on a host of parameters. Some men prefer skinny women while others enjoy the company of a woman who has some meat on her bones and more curviness to her body. Regardless, both big women and skinny women have their fair share of advantages and disadvantages.

My opinion on this subject was confirmed when I, as a plus-size woman, decided to start looking for a good man using bbw dating sites. The men who I met were both thin and overweight, each with their own preferences on what they, too, were seeking in a woman. This got me thinking about the pro and cons of dating a plus-size woman.

There is no denying the fact that chubby women look cute and cuddly. But there is something that made her be overweight – she likes to eat. Food is an important part of her life. If you happen to be a foodie, you should consider dating a big woman over a skinny girl. This way, you wouldn’t have to worry about what you eat and you can visit any new food joint in your city for a quick bite without any awkwardness.

On the other hand, if your big girl is a bigger foodie than you are, and you want to control your weight gain, then you’re in for some serious trouble because she might contribute to your weight increase. While there is no harm in having a little extra fat, having too much of it might hinder your love-making sessions. Too much weight can limit the positions you enjoy with little or no room for creativity. I’ve had conversations about this with some of the men I’ve met on bbw dating sites. I doubt this subject ever comes up among skinny men and women.

Plus-size women, as well as men, may also experience health-related issues due to obesity, such as suffering from various heart related ailments or diabetes that may tax the monthly budget. It’s always good advice to overweight people to be mindful of their health and hearts and include exercise of some sort in their daily activities.

Although this is certainly a matter of personal choice, I found it interesting that fewer men seem to now prefer dating a skinny woman. According to a recent survey that I read, less than 30% of men in the United States and the United Kingdom now prefer dating a skinny woman. Skinny women with less than 10% of fat are more likely to appeal to athletes.

If your preference is a skinny woman, there are a few things that you may want to consider. For instance, women that are too skinny often face complications during pregnancy. In some cases, they may give birth to weaker and smaller infants. It might be good to have a limit as to how skinny you want your girl to be. It is always good to consider all the aspects before initiating a completely different phase of life.

The purpose of this article is not to convince men to choose a big girl over a skinny one. These are just some of my thoughts to consider that might help big women when dating via bbw dating sites, and maybe what to expect when meeting men this way. I just wanted to point out the good and bad of dating both plus-size women and skinny women. At the end of the day, it is you who makes the decision – good or bad, and for better or for worse.

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