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BBW Ladies – Look Out For This Guy!

Dating is difficult and frustrating enough, but if you’re a plus-size bbw woman, it may be even tougher. Listed are some of the types of men to steer clear of, whether you’re a petite or plus-size woman. While I can’t tell you who your perfect man is, these “heads ups” may help you in your search for true love:

The Male Chauvinistic

This guy will always assume that you’re inferior because you’re a bbw woman and will attempt to control you. He will never respect your opinions just because you’re a woman, and a plus-size woman to boot! He will assume that you’re lucky to get any attention from a man. Unless you don’t mind feeling like a doormat (even a doormat will probably end up with more self esteem), you need to stop believing that you are in any way inferior. Tell this man who’s in charge from the “get go” and hand him his walking papers!

If you join an online bbw dating service, you’ll be able to meet and sort through “quality” men and, hopefully, avoid these types of men.

The Mama’s Boy

Men can be big babies! And Mama’s boys are the worst. While it’s okay for them to want their egos stroked every once in a while, anything more than that, and you’ve got yourself a child! They can be selfish and spoiled rotten by their mothers which means you will always be fighting to live up to their mother’s standards. You will always come in “second”!

The Womanizer

These guys are never satisfied with whomever they’re with. It doesn’t matter if you look like Halle Berry or are smarter than Einstein, this guy has a roving eye and will ogle at every woman that passes by. Although men of all types appreciate beauty (so do we when spotting a good-looking man!), when his eyes don’t ever go back into their sockets after all the ogling, then you need to move on to a man who will see only you and appreciates your beauty!

Again, meeting men through bbw dating may help you avoid this type if man.


The Cheapskate

He’ll buy you flowers, if they’re on sale (just before their expiration/wilting). He’ll take you to dinner at the places he has coupons for. He’ll have a stack of vouchers ready for redemption. And he probably parks 22 blocks away just to avoid paying the parking fee. While it’s great to be smart with money, it’s not ok to “skimp” when taking your girl out to dinner, or anywhere for that matter. You’ll end up spending your life with someone who holds onto to money with white knuckles…and will probably be buried with it!

The Jealous Man

This guy will show his unfounded jealousy in “stages”. It may start with him getting jealous of the waiter who smiled at you while taking your order. Then you’ll be questioned as to why you were ten minutes late getting home from work. And it really reaches its height when he tells you his brother hugged you for too long. A little jealousy is cool and keeps things exciting, but when it becomes stifling (and ridiculous), dump the guy and move on!

The Narcissist

He loves himself and spends two hours longer to get dressed and “primp” than you do. He will always describe himself, and his occupation, as being more than it really is. He’s very outspoken and over-confident. And you will be “invisible” on his arm because he’s so much into himself rather than being into you. When he’s not preening himself, he’s probably always bragging about his various achievements. If he loves himself so much, then there won’t be much room for anyone else. Run!

The Workaholic

He’s a hard worker and probably very successful, financially. As a result, you’ll enjoy being taken to the finest restaurants, events, and given expensive clothes. But you’ll soon find out that working is his “lady” and you’ll be left waiting by the phone (because he’s still at the office) and putting up with “re-scheduling” dates. When working all the time becomes a priority over you and your relationship, it’s time to ask yourself if you’re happy at always playing second fiddle. Work will never wait until tomorrow so he can spend time with you. Move on!


Getting a commitment out of
any of these guys could be a bit of a battle, considering their lifestyles or attitudes aren’t exactly conducive to having another person in their lives. You deserve better! Try an online bbw dating service to find a “good” man who will appreciate you and who will show it!

2 Responses to BBW Ladies – Look Out For This Guy!

  1. Sometimes reading these thing gives hope that one day I will get a good big lady tho am African, like this msg😍Thanks

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